I was reading through some things yesterday and i came upon an article that concluded that a passionate woman is worth the chaos she brings into a relationship.

upon reading more articles i came to realize that she truly is, because for all the chaos she brings, passion and love follows swiftly behind.

A woman wrote.  

If your ideal relationship is dinner every night at 7 p.m. and properly folded (and/or washed) towels, then the last thing on this God-given earth you want is a passionate woman.

Now let me preface this by saying that women who are more structured and prompt are by no means bad. They’re great and both my mom and I wish I could be more like them.

In fact, I have to physically set reminders in my phone to do things that these superwomen just naturally know to do, i.e. eat breakfast before noon. 

That being said, I always felt like there was something wrong with me, and that I had to work really hard to be someone I never really related to.

As an adult I’ve fully accepted and learned to be happy with my no-routine routine and ability to function even when the walls are literally crashing down around me.

So if you find yourself about to start a relationship with a passionate women, I want you to make sure you’re ready.

Because shit can get real weird, real fast.

Are you prepared to occasionally feel like second choice to her job/project/hobby?

Can you handle listening to her talk about her goals for hours on end without making her feel like she’s annoying you?

Will you ask no questions when she tells you to run to the store for something weird like paint pens and teddy bears?

Are you capable of being there for her when she has a mental breakdown because she’s taken on way too much stuff and can’t think?

And most importantly, can you promise that you’ll never make her feel bad about being who she is?

When a passionate woman finds someone who supports her and loves her, she gives them everything she has.

Because really, that’s the only way she knows how to love.

and my conclusion is:

Passion is no less than a volatile, unrestrained, restless energy; one that is unprejudiced to both good and bad. It’s passion; works best when it’s allowed to quite simply flow. A woman driven by passion will make her man the king of his world, for there’s not a stone she’ll leave unturned for his unhindered journey to the pinnacle. But hark! It comes at a price. She’s got passion in her veins, which can easily cause her to be impetuous, rash, reckless, often foolhardy! But can ya really blame her? She loves her man; loves him to death!
So is she worth the chaos you say?
You betcha she is!!
For when it comes to a passionate woman, chaos truly is a ladder! 🙂